● “Ugh, yes I totally understand what you mean. I hate feeling transactional. There are so many men who are willing to just toss cash at me in exchange for a specific something, but what’s really hard to find is a man who also respects my time and who I can connect with. I want allowance, but also someone who I enjoy as a companion…”
● “Oh I hated to trouble the man I was previously with, so we did cash allowances on a set date each month. It saved both him and I trouble in terms of tax purposes, and having to bother him constantly whenever I needed financial support for a thing here or there throughout the month was just not something I wanted to do all the time, hence the allowance on a set date.”
● “Cash allowances (instead of bank wire transfers) give me greater financial freedom. I find with a cash allowance I can divide up my finances to satisfy various needs for that month. Cash is so flexible.”
● “You’re so handsome/intelligent/witty/so much easier to talk to and have a good time with than some of the other men I’ve met from the site!”
● (In reply to the question “How are you finding the site/what are some messages you’ve gotten, etc.?”) “The site works so well! My inbox is just flooded with messages (it’s really not LOL) and it takes so much time to go through all of them, so honestly I have to screen them the best I can and reply to only some, and then from there I have to carefully pick out who to meet for safety reasons etc. Sometimes it’s overwhelming as there are so many nice and generous men, and just not enough time in the day to meet up with them all!”
(At this point he thinks he’s some hot shit, but also hopefully realizes how lucky he is and better work for it to keep himself in your good graces. Don’t let him feel too much like he’s hot shit, because he’s not. He’s usually just plain shit, even if he ends up being an SD).
● (At the end of the date if you are heading home and parting ways/not sharing Uber or Taxi) “This was fun! Let’s do it again sometime/some bullshit variation. Could you help me (not “Do you mind helping me”) get a ride home?“
If he is too dumb to take this simple and overused hint for “Pay my taxi/uber home bitch”, then he is too stupid to do much else, much less spoil you properly. Dump his ass. Delete his number.
Date just automatically should equal meal and dessert, and maybe even another meal to take home 😂 (going to try this one this week LOL “To fuel my late night studying, so hard /sobsob/”) and definitely also ride back home. Ride there is different story, choose the cheapest ride there unless you plan to have him compensate you, which most men won’t want to do.